MYTHS & FACTS ABOUT PROBLEM GAMBLING
Adapted from Chris Lobsingerís Problem Gambling website and the National Council on Problem Gambling's information package for the national problem gambling awareness day.
You have to gamble
everyday to be a problem gambler.
A problem gambler may gamble frequently or infrequently. The frequency
is not as important as the impact of the gambling.
If a personís gambling is causing psychological, financial, emotional,
marital, legal, or other difficulties for themselves or the people around them,
then they have a gambling problem.
MYTH: Problem gamblers gamble at every opportunity and on any form of gambling.
FACT: Most problem gamblers have a favorite form of gambling that causes them problems. Some also engage in secondary forms of gambling that are not usually as problematic, but the slowness of the secondary form will leave them unsatisfied and often will push them back to the problematic form of gambling. When a patient is using one form of gambling to attempt to fund a second form, like a sports bettor who is trying to earn money to play cards, it is my contention that their addictive behavior has progressed to a problem or pathological degree.
MYTH: Problem gambling is not really a problem if the gambler can afford it.
Problems caused by excessive
gambling are not just financial. If a personís gambling is interfering with
their ability to act in accordance with their values, then there is a problem.
For example, too much time spent on gambling means less time to spend with
family, friends, and others. It can lead to relationship breakdown and loss of
MYTH: Problem gamblers are irresponsible people.
problem gamblers hold, or have held, responsible community positions. In
addition, even people with a long history of responsible behavior are vulnerable
to developing a gambling problem. When a person is having a problem gambling
episode, that person is unable to control their gambling and in this compromised
state their actions look like irresponsible behavior.
MYTH: Children are not affected by problem gambling.
show that about 10% to 15% of American and Canadian youth have experienced
gambling-related problems, and 1% to 6% of these individuals may satisfy
diagnostic criteria for pathological gambling. Additionally, children of problem
gamblers have been shown to be at a higher risk of developing health-threatening
behaviors. This includes alcohol and drug use, problem gambling, eating
disorders, depression and suicide.
MYTH: Partners of problem gamblers often drive problem gamblers to gamble.
Problem gamblers are skilled
in finding ways to rationalize their gambling. Blaming others is one way to
avoid taking responsibility for actions, including actions needed to overcome
the gambling problem.
MYTH: Financial problems are the main reason that problem gamblerís relationships break down.
is true that money problems play an important part in ending relationships.
However, many non-gambling partners say that the lies and lack of trust is the
MYTH: Parents of problem gamblers are to blame for their childrenís behavior.
Many parents of problem
gamblers feel hurt and guilty about their sonís or daughterís gambling
behavior, but they are not to blame.
MYTH: If a problem gambler builds up a debt, the important thing to do is to help them get out of the financial problem as soon as possible.
Quick fix solutions are often
attractive to everyone involved and may appear to be the right thing to do.
However, ďbailingĒ the gambler out of debt may actually make matters worse
by enabling gambling problems to continue.
MYTH: Problem gambling is easy to recognize.
Problem gambling has
been called the hidden addiction. It is very easy to hide as it has few
recognizable symptoms, unlike alcohol and drug use. Many problem gamblers
themselves do not recognize they have a gambling problem. Problem gamblers often
engage in self-denial.